[Guest Post] What Is Happening to Our Pastors?

There are plenty of reasons to question what the modern church has become, and there are many critical voices eager to expose its failures. My friends Jamin Goggin and Kyle Strobel are not among them. In their new book, The Way of the Dragon or the Way of the Lamb, they act like expert physicians dissecting and diagnosing the church’s maladies, but they do it with compassion and humility. In this guest post by Jamin, he challenges us to think differently about the many stories we hear about pastoral failures. Rather than blaming the pastors or unaccountable leadership structures, he identifies a more systemic and sinister villain—us. 

He came over to my house a few times when I was in high school. This was rare in the church I grew up in. Having a pastor in our home was something special. Especially when it was a pastor of some stature. He was that. I remember him taking a genuine interest in my family’s life, in me and in my parents. He may have been fairly new on staff, and we were long time members, but his personal care and engagement made us love him. In college, when I embraced the call to pastoral ministry, he was often on my mind and heart. Years later his name popped up again in my life. I don’t remember who first told me, or why, but I remember the shock and sadness I felt. This pastor I had so revered, admired, and adored, had left his wife for another woman. It felt impossible to believe. I remember immediately going online, not to dig up dirt, but genuinely hoping to find that it wasn’t true. Sadly, it was.

After several years in ministry, I have found these stories to be all too familiar. Some have been more personal than others, but all of them have provoked deep grief in my heart and I do not grieve alone. I have spoken to fellow believers devastated by the moral failings of pastors they trusted and admired. People feel lied to, abused, and manipulated in the very community called to be grounded in truth, love, and faithfulness. Inevitably the question always comes, “How could this happen?”

In recent years this question has been broadened. A pastor’s fall no longer impacts the local church alone (if it ever did). We live in the era of celebrity pastors whose platforms of influence stretch far beyond the walls of their local congregation, and who shake the earth when they fall off their pedestals. Their books are best-sellers and their sermons are heard online around the world. In recent months one such figure has ignited the evangelical blogosphere and twitter murmurings, Tullian Tchividjian. But it wasn’t long ago that Mark Driscoll was the tip of this spear. Their behavior has been well documented, the age of social media has made sure their sins would be unveiled before all. As a result of their sin, churches have collapsed, conferences evaporated, and, most importantly, lives have been deeply wounded. Again, the question that plagues us is, “How could this happen?”

In our disappointment and confusion, it is easy to grasp for explanations that are quick and quantifiable; as if the problem was simply a lack of accountability. We assume that if these leaders had stronger and more committed friends, pastors, and elders around them this would have never happened. Pride is part of the story as is autonomous, totalitarian leadership structures, but these fail to address the deeper, systemic issue. We need to recognize the log in the eye of the church as a whole. Mark Driscoll and Tullian Tchividjian are merely the most visible fruit of a very sick tree; a tree whose roots are drinking from a poisoned well.

In short, the church has embraced a form of power that is antithetical to the way of Jesus, and her pastors stand on the front line of this destructive reality. We have succumbed to the temptation Adam and Eve were seduced by in the garden—believing that dependence upon God is a place of scarcity and hindrance, while autonomy is a place of flourishing and fulfillment. We have embraced the way from below, which James tells us is marked by “jealousy and selfish ambition” (James 3:13-16). James claims that this way from below is employed by the world, the flesh, and the devil. As a “way,” this path is the great temptation we face as the people of God today, maybe especially because of how broad and well-travelled it is. Ironically, we are tempted to choose this path for the sake of achieving a kingdom-minded goal. We are easily convinced that this path is virtuous by telling ourselves the ends justify the means—that this way will help us get things done for God.

However, James makes it clear that when we believe the power of God’s kingdom always aligns with our gifts, abilities, talents, resources and know-how, we are actually seeking control apart from God. That is how the demonic, the flesh, and the world operate, not God’s kingdom. When we accept this power system, we turn to those who have the greatest gifts, the most impressive skill sets, and the obvious resources to lead. We put our confidence in those who can make things happen, get things done, and who impress everyone as they do it. We accept the lie that giftedness is synonymous with sacredness, and as a result we embrace people who may have the world’s anointing rather than God’s; who walk in the way of the dragon rather than the way of the Lamb.

A few years ago, I recall hearing of a local pastor who had cheated on his wife. In the aftermath, the leadership of the church quickly established a path for his restoration back into “up front” ministry. They assumed that his “gifts” meant he was anointed for pastoral ministry, and their top priority was restoring his position of visible influence. The woman whom he had cheated with was also on the church’s staff, but her position was quickly removed and she was not heard from again. Why was one adulterer quickly restored while the other removed? Because the pastor was the anointed one, the person with all the promise and leadership capability, and the person the future of the church relied upon.

This story is not unusual. We live in a day when pastors who have ravaged congregations, have lied and cheated publicly, who offer no sign of repentance and engage no real season of contrition, are simply allowed to move on to a new congregation or are given a new ministry platform. This happens repeatedly because we have accepted the lie of the anointed. We have accepted the lie that the power of the kingdom is wrapped up in worldly anointing. We have accepted that leaders can minister in their strength and narcissism and still bear good fruit, and we have rejected the one who said, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness” (2 Cor. 12:9). These leaders try to sow in the flesh to reap in the Spirit, and we celebrate them for doing so. That is either folly or delusion. What we sow we will reap; it is one of the most repeated and fundamental axioms in Scripture (Gal. 6:7-8).

So, we return to the original question, “How could this happen?” Rather than looking at pastors or church leadership structures, the answer requires us to look at ourselves and our own temptation to seek worldly power and our own culpability in creating a church culture that celebrates a form of power antithetical to the way of Jesus. That kind of self-examination is not comfortable. It is much easier to believe the problem is simply individuals who have sinned and structures that have failed to hold them accountable. The problem we must find the courage to face is that the very narcissism, lust, and greed that has caused church leaders to fall is the same narcissism, lust, and greed that drove their ministries to “succeed.” In many cases, it was precisely these vices that attracted us to them as “leaders” and “visionaries” in the first place.

The solution is not finding pastors who do not struggle with grandiosity, ambition, or other vices applauded by the world. Rather, we need to find leaders that have chosen the way of Jesus rather than the way of the dragon. Leaders who genuinely believe that God’s power is manifested in weakness, in surrender, and in prayer even if they struggle to follow that narrow path.  We are not looking for perfect pastors, but there is a major difference between a pastor who wrestles with God while trusting in his way, and one pursuing ministry while trusting in the world’s way. The former is the kind of leadership that will know power in weakness, the latter is the kind of leadership that will become toxic. The first is the way of the Lamb, the other is the way of the dragon masquerading as a lamb.

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Jamin Goggin and Kyle Strobel explore these themes further in their new book The Way of the Dragon or the Way of the Lamb (Thomas Nelson, 2017). Preorder available at www.dragonorlamb.com.

Jamin Goggin is a pastor at Mission Hills Church and is the co-author of Beloved Dust (Thomas Nelson, 2014). Jamin can be found at JaminGoggin.com or on twitter.




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14 Comments

  • January 20, 2017

    Joel Zehring

    Perhaps related: Christians like to associate with leaders who draw large numbers of people, because crowds give us a false sense validation about a church or ministry. “This many people couldn’t all be wrong about this pastor/church/ministry… right?”

    Jesus was under no such compulsion to validate his ministry, despite strong urging from his own family to perform miracles in a manner to gain more publicity. In fact, Jesus had no problem letting people abandon his ministry when they encountered distasteful ideas or principles. You know, stuff like eating the flesh and drinking the blood of the leader.

  • January 24, 2017

    Andrew

    Jamin,

    Thank you for your good words about the nature of Christian leadership. Two questions. I am a recent seminary graduate trying to find work in church ministry. One of my biggest frustrations over the past year is that as I have searched for jobs, it has become clear to me that not only do the vast majority of churches have leaders who exhibit a fair amount of the narcissism, lust, and greed you talk about, they also hire based on these qualities. I rarely see prayer as a listed job requirement, and through nearly a dozen interviews so far I have been asked precisely one question about my character (as far as I can tell, the ratio of ability/personality questions to character questions is roughly 100:1). Perhaps these things are taken for granted, and perhaps that is part of the problem.

    My first question is, what advice would you give for finding a job in ministry without losing your soul? And second, I don’t suppose you know anyone who’s hiring? 🙂

    • January 25, 2017

      Jamin Goggin

      Andrew,

      I appreciate you sharing your heart. Its a sobering reality you speak of, one that I am very familiar with. I don’t have a secret formula or quick answer. My prayer for you would be that you can find an ecclesial context in which things like prayer are valued in leaders. They are out there. There are many wonderful churches with healthy models of leadership. That being said, the call is for you to remain faithful to your vocation regardless of the context. Pastoral ministry is not a profession, but rather a vocation. It is a calling. Central to that calling are things like shepherding, proclaiming the good news and prayer. Some contexts of ministry I have been in these past twelve years have nurtured and affirmed these primary components of the pastoral calling, and others have ignored or worse rejected them. However, the call remains the same. The profession/the organization don’t define your vocation, but rather the One who calls you does. There may be a season in which you find yourself more alone in embracing your calling, but dear brother my encouragement to you is to remain faithful to Christ above all else. He is with you. You are not alone. Bless you!

      Jamin

  • January 25, 2017

    Greg M. Johnson

    I have fondness for Skye’s content as seen in podcasts, blogs, and books.
    I had a fondness, albeit an even deeper thematic connection, to the podcasts, tweets, and books of Tullian. I like a half-dozen other speakers, and they provide a lifeline against the craziness of the international and local scene, maybe like getting letters from Paul to the early church? I don’t see this embrace of power thing, at least by the grass roots.

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  • January 26, 2017

    Phill

    It seems to me that many Churches have evolved into entertainment venues where the praise band and worship team perform and the pastor presents a teaching meant to keep the faithful coming back for more. The service is timed to the minute and the order of service must be adhered to. The emphasis is on the musicians and the messenger rather than worship and the work of the Holy Spirit to make the Word of God sharp and powerful. Gone are the times of prayer for the sick, ministry to the hurting, or sharing what God is doing in the midst of the congregation. Don’t get me wrong, there are a lot of wonderful people who love the Lord in those churches, but there are also many who have stopped attending church who hunger for the Lord to bring an awakening to the Church. Those in leadership are many times competing for the same people. Big buildings and big salaries need big dollars. The church in town with the biggest and best band and most popular preacher gets the biggest crowds. And so it goes!

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  • January 26, 2017

    Dr. Harry Schaumburg

    I’ve counseled countless hundreds of pastors from across the U.S. who committed sexual sin. Your article makes an excellent point. Yes, we ask, “How can this happen?” Specifically, how can a pastor preach against adutery, counsel a spouse who is committing adultery, and at the same time be living in sexual sin? As one celebrity pastor stated to me over 25 years ago, “I was spiritually empty on the inside.” He was preaching 3 services on Sunday, booked 2 years ahead with speaking engagements, and selling his book and tapes. I see spiritual emptiness as a occupational hazard, but fed by the deceitfulness of the heart.

  • January 27, 2017

    Holly Mikovits

    I look forward to digging into the book Jamin! Let me just say that I have been involved with a good many churches since my decision to follow Christ as a high school student. I was discipled,mentored,encouraged and taught by many pastors as a student, church member, volunteer and employee. In all but a few cases, I also had a front row seat to what happens when the truth of narcissism,lust, greed and other such sin has been uncovered in the life of leaders and pastors. I yearn for the type of pastors and leaders that put their own relationship with Christ first and bathes every decision,sermon, conversation and counsel in trembling prayer before the One that truly leads! I deeply cherish the relationship and wisdom of a few pastors ,in my life, that have lived their lives in front me in this manner! I am so encouraged, after a long drought in my experiences with church, to know that your heart (along with Sams) is one that is turned in the right direction and because of that has the potential to influence the way of our church going forward.Praying fervently for you both and so excited to see God’s hand of blessing, guidance and wisdom as He is lifted high in exchange for the ideas and empty wisdom of some leaders.

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  • January 31, 2017

    Gary R Sweeten

    As a Counselor with decades of pro bon ministry with ministers and wives I am overwhelmed with the pain so many people experience in professional ministry. I am careful to assess the root causes of leader burn out and crashes. In many cases, if not most, it is performance obsession by the leader and the members. Performance obsession leads to works righteousness and a lack of resting in Christ and living with a load of false guilt and false shame from constantly “failing”.

    They often fail to live up to the hype and works set out for them in seminary. It focuses 95% on talk and study and ministry is talking with people and developing good relationships. The critical voice of condemnation is not Jesus but my teacher.

    It is also the lies we hear about “carrying the burdens and loads of every suffering member”. Scripture clearly says that is false. Bear burdens but see to it that others carry their own loads. Articles, books and famous Christians tells us to heal racism, adopt children, welcome refugees, and heal the sick while nurturing the lonely and widows.

    want to help? Calling people narcissistic and blaming them is a poor solution. Listen and show them how to let Jesus carry the loads of the world.

  • February 1, 2017

    Michael Bentley

    Thanks for this. 2 Cor. 12.9 was on my list earlier this morning. Continuing to pray.

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